About Us

Nice n Naughty is delighted to announce the launch of Be a lady.

You spoke and we listened, for the past 24 years the same problems were faced by so many of our male customers when it came to wanting to ‘Be a lady’ for a moment, an hour, a day, a week or even a lifetime – where to store their personal belongings, their treasured wardrobe that so often was thrown in the bin or discarded in hotels or public toilets for the fear of it being found by wives, partners, family members or work colleagues.

Customers told us of their fear of being found out, living a secret life because they wanted to enjoy dressing as a woman. The fear of their secret hiding space being discovered, in the works van, in a tool bag in the garage, in a hole behind the garden shed led to untold stress and worry.

We take away that fear and offer the perfect solution to store belongings that can be requested at anytime.

Offering Drop 2 Shop and discrete shipping options allows our customers to request all or a selection of their belongings sent to a designated address or collection point and the ability to return using prepaid bags and labels simply with minimal fuss.

With the additional options of a cleaning service, we take away the stress so customers can dress to impress!

Chaperone Service

We at Be a lady are aware of the desire to go out dressed, however, the anxiety of walking out alone can be overwhelming and often dismissed as an unattainable desire. We are here to hold your hand, metaphorically speaking. If you want to go shopping, afternoon tea, or just come to the office and hang out with the girls we can arrange this with one of the Be a Lady chaperones. Combined we have over 100 years experience in helping men ‘Be a Lady’.

We understand the fears, concerns and worries you have each and every time you put on your stockings, We don’t mean sticking you finger through and laddering them, although this is annoying! The desire to be seen as a woman, the need to flaunt your femininity , or the need to feel humiliated because you are a little sissy. Until now you haven’t dared leave the house – that can change with our bespoke chaperone packages.

Secure storage

Support Whats App/Discrete messaging

Discrete shipping & Return options

Payment options 100% secure

Our Customers say...

Trish and Mel are diamonds. Made me feel so at ease despite feeling so nervous beforehand. A supportive, chilled out environment with loads of lovely outfits of all styles to try. If you’re on the fence about booking just go for it. You won’t regret it. Looking forward to next time.

Jenny
Jenny

What can I say but OMG! Thank you both, Trish and Mel, for the best day of my life as Lucy. It has been absolutely fantastic from the moment I arrived till the very end. I never thought I would have the courage to do something like this but my God I am never going to stop doing this, as it is who I am meant to be and I can 1000000% recommend this wonderful team. Honestly if you are nervous or unsure just do it. I was nervous until the moment I stepped out of the car but once I went in it was fantastic.

Lucy
Lucy

What an amazing team at Be a lady! I have never felt so comfortable and accepted in my entire life. The make up made me feel like a natural woman.

Angie
Angie

Crossdressing for me personally is a secret, and so privacy plays a major role in allowing me to dress. Be a lady have helped me store outfits, wigs and make up that I otherwise would have disposed of to keep my secret safe.

Clara
Clara

I was so nervous when I arrived, but there was no need to worry. Trish & the team really know how to make you feel at ease, with Mel doing my make-up and Trish helping me select my outfits – I had the best afternoon. Next time I will book a chaperone to enjoy afternoon tea.

Stephanie
Stephanie

Discreetly receiving and posting back my selected wardrobe items has allowed additional variety into my collection, as I am able to rent as many boxes as I need to keep my essentials safe.

Sylvie
Sylvie

These guys have so much combined experience with crossdressing customers – I had been a customer of the Nice n Naughty Shop in Chester for many years. I have spent thousands and had no choice but to throw it all away in fear of it being found. The storage Be a Lady offers is fantastic and they are so easy to deal with.

Sofia
Sofia

I spend a lot of money on the clothing and wigs that I like to wear so having somewhere to be able to store these discreetly without the worry of them being found is invaluable. It offers me freedom as I am no longer worried about being discovered.

Frankie
Frankie

If you’ve been thinking for years to try a crossdressing service and wondered whether it’s right for you, then let me tell you it is. If you’ve never dressed before or are less experienced than others when it comes to dressing then definitely get in touch with Be A Lady. From the very first phone call I knew I’d made the right decision, Trish was welcoming and understanding and before the end of that phone call I knew I’d made the right decision. After weeks of anticipation and what Trish must’ve felt like 100’s of emails from me, the day arrived. I arrived at the discreet but very findable destination and was welcomed into their cozy salon/beauty room. My nerves totally subsided as Lynsey and Trish put me totally at ease with a cuppa and a chat. I was then asked to undress and put on the lovely cozy dressing ground. Then Lynsey got to work transforming me. Throughout the process she was gentle and reassuring. Trish throughout chatting away making sure I was comfortable and I was happy with everything . Then came the dressing, which Lynsey and Trish were so helpful with, not simply handing me the clothes and asking me to put them on, but treating me like someone special and actually dressing me (as all these items of clothing were very new to me). When Be A Lady first open communication with you, they ask you what look you’d like and ask you to send photos on what look you’d like, I’d asked for a gothic look but give them free reign on what they wanted to do. The look I received was more perfect than I could’ve imagined, using colours I would never of thought of using. After I was dressed we sat for a good length of time and I was shown how to sit like a lady and how to walk like a lady ( the second part was less successful). The just sitting and chatting was so important as I felt like just like one of the girls. Then it came to the time to return to my male form, and after having the use of a beautiful shower and removing 99% of my make up, the wonderful Lynsey helped me remove any remaining traces and it was time to get dressed and leave, but not before a massive hug for both Trish and Lynsey and them telling me they hope I will return soon ( which I will). Don’t hesitate and book quickly with Be A Lady because I can see them booking up rather quickly!

Vicki
Vicki

"Excellent service with a personal feel. Ordering items and arranging storage was effortless and quick. Friendly, helpful staff. Will definitely be buying again from Nice n' Naughty."

Mel
Mel

Bring out the lady in you!

Be a lady has its very own resident make up artist, ‘make up with Mel’ who will bring out the best in you, whether you want the subtle natural look, the glitzy party glamour – or treat me like a slut look we can work our magic. We don’t just want to make you look gorgeous, we want to give the skills to apply your own make-up. Less Aunt Sally – more Grace Kelly!